Comments on: The 7 Warning Signs of Low Self Esteem

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By: Henry

Henry — Fri, 17 Apr 2020 20:07:18 +0000

We will all fine some of this apply to us. Even the most confident self assured of us have some insecurities. But it is only when we have extremely low self esteem and it becomes a problem that we need to worry about it.

By: Robert Chen

Robert Chen — Tue, 07 Feb 2017 12:27:48 +0000

In reply to Late-Bloomer. Thanks Late-bloomer!

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Late-Bloomer — Tue, 07 Feb 2017 05:26:57 +0000

Very good! I love the quote at the end.

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Baskar Alvar Maniccam — Sat, 03 Oct 2015 18:19:03 +0000

We are on an eternal search for the truth because we only believe in the lies we have stored in our mind. We are on an eternal search for justice because in the belief system we have, there is no justice. We are on an eternal search for beauty because it doesn’t matter how beautiful a person is, we don’t believe that person has beauty. We keep searching and searching, when everything is already within us. There is no truth to find. Wherever we turn our heads, all we see is the truth, but with the agreements and beliefs we have stored in our mind, we have no eyes for this truth. We don’t see the truth because we are blind. What blinds us are all those false beliefs we have in our mind. We have the need to be right and to make others wrong. We trust what we believe, and our beliefs set us up for suffering. It is as if we live in the middle of a fog that doesn’t let us see any further than our own nose. We live in a fog that is not even real – it is a dream, our personal dream of life — what we believe, all the concepts we have about what we are, all the agreements we have made with others and with ourselves, We cannot see who we truly are; we cannot see that we are not free. That is why we resist life. To be alive is the biggest fear we have. Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive — the risk to be alive and express what we really are. Just being ourselves is the biggest fear of humans. We have learned to live our lives trying to satisfy other people’s demands. We have learned to live by other people’s points of view because of the fear of not being accepted and of not being good enough for someone else. We create an image of how we should be in order to be accepted by everybody. We especially try to please the ones who love us, like parents, siblings, the priests and the teacher. Trying to be good enough for them, we create an image of perfection, but we don’t fit this image. We create this image, but this image is not real. We are never going to be perfect from this point of view. Never!
Not being perfect, we reject ourselves. And the level of self-rejection depends upon how effective the adults were in breaking our integrity. We are not good enough for ourselves because we don’t fit with our own image of perfection. We cannot forgive ourselves for not being what we wish to be, or rather what we believe we should be. We cannot forgive ourselves for not
being perfect. We know we are not what we believe we are supposed to be and so we feel false, frustrated, and dishonest. We try to hide ourselves, and we pretend to be what we are not. The result is that we feel unauthentic and wear social masks to keep others from noticing this. We are so afraid that somebody else will notice that we are not what we pretend to be. We judge others according to our image of perfection as well, and naturally they fall short of our expectations. We dishonor ourselves just to please other people. We even do harm to our physical bodies just to be accepted by others. We punish ourselves endlessly for not being what we believe we should be. We become very self-abusive and nobody abuses us more than we abuse ourselves. The way we judge ourselves is the worst judge that ever existed. If we make a mistake in front of people, we try to deny the mistake and cover it up. But as soon as we are alone, the Judge becomes so strong, the guilt is so strong, and we feel so stupid, or so bad, or so unworthy.

By: Robert Chen

Robert Chen — Wed, 15 Jul 2015 14:42:17 +0000

In reply to Lara. Thank you for sharing your tip Lara - enjoying time with people we care about and who care about us is a great way to enhance your life.

By: Lara

Lara — Tue, 14 Jul 2015 05:16:33 +0000

I am working on this project, that how to raise self esteem, I met a lots people and I found their is nothing much difficulty that we do in depression, we just need to meet our friends colleagues and hangout with them, share our thoughts and try to enjoy every moment.