Embrace Possbility Lessons Learned Going From One Mile to an Ironman

About Robert Chen

Robert Chen is an executive coach, Wharton lecturer, and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of Selling Your Expertise. He created Embrace Possibility to explore practical ideas for living and working with greater intention, and founded Vana Lab to help young people build the real-world capabilities they need to navigate life.

Lessons Learned Going From One Mile to an Ironman

2026-08-15T10:05:27-04:00Categories: Health, Inspiration, Personal Development|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , |

A colleague once told me she'd completed an Ironman. I had to ask what that actually meant. A 2.4-mile swim, 112 miles on the bike, and then a marathon — all in one day, all of it finished before midnight. At the time, it sounded [...]

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Why We Seek Validation We Don’t Need — And What To Do Instead

2025-12-18T00:19:24-05:00Categories: Personal Development, Professional Development|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

As I look back on this past year — especially the early days of building and launching Vana Lab — one lesson stands out more than I expected. It didn’t come from a book, a mentor, or a workshop. It came from the very human [...]

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Warren Buffett’s Final Letter: Lessons Learned from a Rewarding Life

2026-08-18T02:40:59-04:00Categories: Inspiration, Modeling Success Series, Personal Development, Professional Development|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , |

Earlier this month, at age 95, Warren Buffett wrote his final shareholder letter (see pdf here). As he reflected on his life, a few life lessons stood out for me: 1. Your Starting Point Matters — But What You Do Next Matters More Buffett begins [...]

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The Best Investments Pay Life Dividends

2026-01-19T18:32:24-05:00Categories: Health, Personal Development, Professional Development|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

When people talk about investments, they usually mean money. Start early. Be consistent. Let it grow. All solid advice. What if you took the same idea and applied it to everything else that matters? Instead of reaping dividends only in dollars, how might you earn [...]

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Have Things. Be With People. (The Simple Shift That Changes Everything)

2025-05-13T10:25:53-04:00Categories: Personal Development, Professional Development, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , |

I’ve been spending more time lately thinking about how we relate to our stuff—and to each other. One phrase from my mindfulness and philosophy reading has really stayed with me, and I wanted to share it with you: Have things. Be with people. It sounds [...]

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The Unintended Consequences of Overprotection: When Helping Hurts

2025-02-27T21:28:51-05:00Categories: Health, Personal Development, Professional Development|Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

As my parents have gotten older, I’ve found myself wanting to make their lives easier. I’ll offer to carry things for them, handle tasks they used to do themselves, and even suggest they take it easy instead of pushing themselves too hard. It comes from [...]

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18 Warning Signs You’re Too Attached – And What to Do About It

2024-09-26T17:06:27-04:00Categories: Personal Development|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Over the past few months, as part of my meditation practice, I’ve been exploring Zen Buddhism and its teachings about attachment. Recently, I came across a quote by Indian Jesuit priest and psychotherapist Anthony De Mello that really struck me: “Now the tragedy of an [...]

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Navigating Life’s Currents: One Important Lesson from Open Water Swimming

2024-07-18T23:22:48-04:00Categories: Personal Development, Professional Development|Tags: , , , , , , , |

I'm training for my first Olympic-distance triathlon, and because I didn't swim growing up in NYC, I've been focusing on my swim technique in an indoor pool. Swimming in open water is a new experience for me and a few weeks ago, I went for [...]

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